A Christian Dating Guide

Sep 13

An old phrase, but each of us has met a girl that fits that description. You know what I mean, beautiful, money, goals– she’s everything you’ve ever wanted. Only problem is she doesn’t want anything to do with you. In fact she doesn’t even know you exist. She’s in PSY303 and you’re stuck
 in PSY101. So the obvious question is– HOW DO YOU GET HER TO NOTICE YOU?! It’s simple… You have to learn to treat a girl– not just that girl, ALL girls! It’s time to step up ‘fellas’. It’s not about trying to seduce her, or convince her to giving you her number; it’s about showing her you are worthwhile. Trust me she won’t even want to talk to you, if she can’t see herself being with you. You have to learn how to give her a glimmer of what could be. In this case: you.But before we can even hope to learn to treat a girl, we need to shatter some popular myths of the female gender in regards to dating. And before we can do that, we need to cover the differences between men and women (more than just the obvious). Let me give a disclaimer here: This is not and should not be read a checklist for dating or ever worse as a way to get in a girl’s pants. Any man can do that. Be a real man, stay out of her pants until you get married.THE FACTSPenis vs. VaginaMen have a penis, women have breasts and a vagina-obvious differences, but necessary to explain. You might be surprised at the number of guys who are going to read this and be surprised. DON’T SKIP OVER THIS. Who knows, maybe you’ll learn something. In order for a man to become aroused he must visually or physically stimulated. In order for a woman to become aroused she must visually, physically, or emotionally stimulated. Thus we have discovered the real difference between men and women. It’s not what does or doesn’t hang between our legs-it’s in our thought processes. There are approx. 10 main components of the penis. There are 16 for the vagina. We’ve just discovered the second difference: Women are more complicated than men. Just because they are more complicated, it doesn’t mean they are impossible to understand. It just means you have to pay more attention.