My mom/dad are never home!!! HELP?
Jun 09
Question by Anastasia?: My mom/dad are never home!!! HELP?
My mom is always at her office and my dad is always “business traveling”. Basically I’ll be lucky if I see them once daily. We’re wealthy and they give me whatever I ask for. How do I deal with the sitution, I get home from school and there’s a message that says “Hey honey, I can’t make it home tonight so take your friends out, its on my credit card”. I’m alone in a 5 bedroom house by myself, I dont even think they care that I have guys over my house, see I’m saying my house because they’re never there… Just sometimes my mom sleeps at her bedroom. Honestly first few months were GREAT. No one home, no one telling you what to do. Go out, drink, have enormous parties with booze, have guys sleepover but after a while I got tired of it. When people see me, I’m the party girl all the parties are at my house and I’m so sick and tired of it!!! I tried talking to my parents but no. Thanks!!
I’m 17.
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Answer by f&jtlfe
well first off i would say dont take advantage of it!!!! just have fun do what you do and you should be fine!!!!
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Grow up! You need to be responsible for your life. You’re 17, so? You will be 18 soon. Sleeping around is not punishing your parents! Partying is not punishing your parents! Screwing over the house does not punish your parents either!Pull your head out of your ass, stop acting like a baby! Get a job, volunteer, whatever. And when your parents decide to spend time with you, ask them why. Have an adult conversation with them when you are an adult. They earn all the money and you waste it. Buy a car, get a hobby that does not involve drugs or sleeping with guys. You don’t have a rough life, you have a bored life right now. Do something more constructive with your life.
I think u shouldnt take disadvanyage of it.talk to ur mom seriously in this regard and tel her abt ur troubles.i thnk a mom can better understand a gals’probs.she’s gonna help ufor sure dearr.
Well I am glad you don’t post your address on here ! That aside…I would go to my moms office for lunch and make her listen to you about your concerns ! If money isn’t an object, maybe your parents would pay for your own place with a roommate. You would not be so lonely then. It is hard to stop a party pad after it is started, so don’t there after you move ! Otherwise, tell your friends that your grandma or something moved in and the party is over at your house
Technically speaking, in CPS terms, it is neglect, but I doubt that any authorities would do anything because of your age. In most states, a 17 year old can be left for several hours each day without an adult around. As long as an adult is in the house sometime while you are there (They don’t have to be awake.) and is able to “supervise” you if needed, it isn’t going to earn a trip to family court. Look at it this way dear, you are practicing for when you are an adult at 18. You will have to learn to make wise choices for yourself and now is a good time to do it. Besides, your mom might be smarter than you think. Unless you are a super housekeeper or you have a maid to clean up behind you, your mom probably knows when you have friends over. Her giving you her credit card even tells you that she expects them to be there. If you really want to surprise her, stop having the parties at your house. After a while, she might come by and ask what happened to all your friends. Then you will have the invitation to sit down and talk about it.
Dear why don’t you take up to some constructive things and keep yourself busy? May be that will help as these guys are not going to change!
I will suggest you to learn something called REIKI! May be after learning it, you can change their mind set and make them stay home for some time at least!
To know more, do feel free to mail me on rekhaa.kale@yahoo.com
I will help you learn this even thro’ emails!
I’M SO SORRY ! YOUR PARENTS SEEM TO BE VERY SELFISH PEOPLE ! ………. BUT I THINK THAT YOU SEEING THE PROBLEM AND KNOWING YOU DON’T WANT TO BE KNOWN AS “THE PARTY GIRL’S HOUSE” THAT SAY’S A LOT FOR YOUR CHARACTER, MAYBE YOU COULD FILL SOME OF YOUR TIME DOING VOLUNTEER WORK ? ……….SOME TIMES IT TAKES PARENTS TILL YOU ARE GROWN AND GONE, BEFORE THEY WAKE UP AND REALIZE WHAT THEY LOST OUT ON! BUT DON’T LET THAT DISCOURAGE YOU. DO YOU HAVE GRANDPARENTS YOU CAN TALK TOO?
Print out this message, and leave it on their pillows.
Add a not saying that you appreciate how hard they work to provide you with everything – but that what you really need is a family, not material things. Remind them that you’ll be going away to college soon, so this is there last chance to spend time with you. Suggest that they cut back on their hours for the next year so you can have more family time – they can work non-stop after you leave.